Making Memories

So, I have this problem… I think I’m falling madly in like with you…

You know, most of the time, when I get on here to write one of my rants, I have a plan for it, but my rants never seem to end up where my plan meant for them to… I often honestly do not know which direction my rants will go. Some of them, I have found, are quite nice. They make me realize I think more deeply when I am severely pissed off or annoyed. 

Adorable Ace seeking closeted gay man to be the nauseatingly cute couple everyone despises with until he finds the discreet man he needs. No sex (obviously), just adorableness and some cuddling. Plus I’m a great friend, ask anyone!

Please excuse the awkward wording.

Okay, FIRST of all, people, you DO NOT need someone else to make you happy. YOU have to make YOU happy before anyone else can add to that happiness. YOU have to love YOU before someone else can. So stop complaining about how unhappy you are when you aren’t even trying to be happy in the first place and all you are doing is sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. I am, for the most part, a happy person at least 95% of the time. Yes, I rant. Yes, I mope around and eat a lot of unhealthy food. But what I do next is move on and find something to be happy about, not linger on what temporarily made me unhappy. SO, let’s move on to my next topic of discussion: YOU DO NOT NEED ANOTHER PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. You will not die if you go more than a week without a “significant” other. And no, I am not saying this because I have lived my whole life without a significant other, I’m saying this because I have found my life to be significantly better without one. So stop with the post every day “I hate being single” “Being single is the worst” bullshit. You will live. What happened to “Single and ready to mingle”? Or “All I need is me, myself, and I.” What happened to being INDEPENDENT?! Did I miss where independence went out of style or something? And the “Really missing the boyfriend/girlfriend” posts are annoying as hell too. How about missing your grandparents who are dead or live in another state and don’t even remember who you are? Or your family you get to see once a year, if you’re lucky? Or your best friend who lives across the country who you haven’t seen in months? Or the loved one who is overseas who you may never see again? Forget missing someone you haven’t seen in a few days or maybe a week, focus on the ones who really mean something and you haven’t seen in months or years. 

I was just reading over some of my posts and I realized they are FULL of typos! I’m not sure if its because I’m always in a bad kind of ranting mood when I post on Tumblr, or if I’m always tired or what it is, but I usually carefully proofread and correct any typos I’ve made. This makes me somewhat upset, but I suppose there is noting I can do about it now except apologize to whomever has read all my awful mistakes. I’m so sorry. And if there are typos in this, I’m blaming sleep deprivation. Until next time!